Colours of LIFE

Quarrel do happen in love

Couple who show that they love each other too much and does not quarrel with each other, couple who show that they love and understand each other very much that they don’t have any reason to quarrel, couple who says that they love each other and promise not to quarrel with each other, couple who say people in love live happily ever after, etc… are all greatest liars or have not faced the meaning of life or have not love from soul or pretend to be happiest and most lovable couple to outside world…
I would rephrase SPRITE punch line “JHOOT KEHTE HAI WO, JO KEHTE HAI KE UNMAI FIGHT NAHI HOTI” (original is “Jhoot kehte hai wo, jo kehte hai unhe pyaas nahi lagti”)

Quarrels do happen… Misapprehension does create problems… At some instance, they don’t understand each other… They do shatter promises… To escape from squabble, they do lie with each other or they do conceal something from each other…

Some quarrel is due to misconception, some are due to trust issue, some quarrel are due to hidden past matters & incidents happened, some situation are due to doggedness of either of partner, some arises when one does not know or understand the situation of other partner, some are due to lie got unfold at present, etc…

Some quarrel takes a serious note while some quarrel ends with sweet note. It all depends on the circumstances, the intent, the understanding, trust within, degree of possessiveness & envy, loyalty, etc… One can understand that couple don’t want everybody or outside world to meddle in their private life, it’s ok for outside world when couple are straight forward with this but then pretending something else to world, makes world to think otherwise (like “they are having fun with each other” “they are not serious with long term relationship” “they are big liars” etc…)

All love and no quarrel makes life dry and boring. No love and all quarrel makes life break into pieces and depression. Some love and all quarrel makes life doubtful and misery. All love with some quarrel makes life interesting and loving. There is nothing to hide about quarrel or say to pretend as if couple don’t quarrel who loves true from heart. Those who love from heart, they too quarrel but ends with better understanding and with more love for each other from heart.

LOVE FROM SOUL, QUARREL FROM SOUL, BE HONEST AND DON’T PRETEND. LOVE AND FIGHT ADDS SPICE IN LIFE.

Happy Valentine to all who love luv :)

LET ME KNOW

It was time when “Bas Itna Sa Khawab Hai” movie starring Abhishek Bachhan released and movie catch line caught hold my imagination string. I got into interest to write poem and I do remember my very first poem title “All I want is everything”. (Catch line of movie)

It was my English Teacher Mrs. Sood who caught me writing this poem during her class. She took my book and read. Guess what! She read and wrote remark “Good and inspiring poem. May you get what you want in this life! Everything… ” I was bamboozled. It was my very first poem and I too couldn’t believe with such remark. Remark made me to feel like “Abhishek Go Go Go, write more poems whatever interest my heart, you have talent in you”.

I wrote many poems during my college days and after writing each poem (whether in Hindi or English); I got into habit to show it to my friends who are interested in poems and know their feedback on my poems. Sometimes they like my poem, sometimes not, sometimes they comment on my language of poem and even sometimes they feel irritated. Writing poems become one of my hobbies and most important I feel happy when someone gives me feedback. This feedback gives me inspiration to write more and more.

Same poem writing continued during my initial MBA days but situation changed. No one (MBA colleagues, friends) ever took interest to read or give feedback or comment on poem. This slowly made me to lose interest in writing poems and I wrote no poems furthermore.

Now let go fast forward in my life: completed MBA, joined TVS-E, made new friends, and celebrated New Year 31st night at Pondicherry with friends. Pause here! After coming back from Pondicherry, I wrote mail describing our experience at Pondicherry. My friends liked it (the way I describe Pondicherry trip). Now fast forward, 3-4 months time flew, made few more friends in company and we planned for one day trip to TADA Waterfalls.

Stop. Play. After trip, again I wrote mail describing our trip starting from morning 5 am till we were back to Chennai 7 pm. Deepak came to me and gave feedback “Too good yaar, Mazza aa gaya padh kar. (Enjoyed reading this) Why don’t you write this in blog so that if we goggle TADA Waterfall, your blog should appear in first page result?” Very first thought came to my mind was “Blog! What is that?”

I don’t know what happen to my mind; I created my blog space in BLOGGER. I just copy paste the mail content to blog space. I wanted to share our TADA experience with other friends too, so I have sent the website link to friends. Many of them gave me good feedback on this blog. This inspired me write more blog. I was in search of topic for writing blog and finally wrote on Roman proverb “Rome was not built in a day”. As my nature or say behaviour, I sent mail to all my friends regarding this and waiting for their feedback. Many friends liked it very much and gave me good feedback.

So, this went on. Blogging become one of my hobbies (flashback; just like writing poem). I publish blog and yearn for feedback. Some read interestingly, some don’t. Here too some friends get irritated. Most importantly, I use to get feedback from friends which keep me inspired to write more. Infact, I am happy that this gave me a start to write poem again (which I lost interest long back) and same I had published on my blog website.


Feedback or comment on what you have done has a strong impact on person. It gives inspiration, lesson, show your good and bad mistakes and most importantly mirrors your ability & potential talent. It is in human nature to crave for feedback for the work done by him/her. Whether it be blog or poem or film or music or painting or even official presentation or anything, creator would definitely have thirst for feedback.

Whether good or bad, whether they liked it or not, what they felt after reading it, any kinda feedback or comment indeed is important for me. It makes me know where I did well and where I did worst. Some may feel excellent, some may feel it boring, some may feel it nice, some feel it crap, what matter the most is “LET ME KNOW”.

Surprise

She accompanied by her friend at home, were listening songs on FM and eagerly waiting for clock to tick past 12 (reason “her birthday”). Just before it ticks 12, I reached home and gave her surprise. She was surprised. She jumped at joy, hugged me tightly and was so happy to see me on her birthday.

We had lots of masti whole night and did planning for next day to freak out and celebrate her birthday. We went to temple (yes, right temple for blessing), then shopping mall, then movie, garden and finally hotel for dinner.

Before reaching home, I was thinking that something is missing on her birthday. Gotcha! Cake is missing! Without wasting miniscule second, I called my friend to get delicious cake and deliver at our home.

We reached home and I got chance to escape from her sight. Before she enters into room, I had turned off the lights and cake was lit up with candles. As she entered room, she saw cake lit up with candles and we (I and her friend) sang birthday song. She was so happy like never before. One should see her face and happiness she is experiencing to believe. It was like she has got whole world in that small surprise.

One should see sparkles in her eyes, joy and happiness reflecting on her face. It was surprise and that was giving her immense pleasure and happiness which I think would not have given by any precious gift on earth. It was giving me gratification and much more satisfaction than giving gift on her birthday.

Surprise is such a wonderful moment which one can experience with immense happiness, joy and pleasure. Surprise is one such moment which can make anyone to experience happiness, joy nevertheless of his mood (whether good or bad, sad or normal, morose or depressed). Surprise makes the other feel special and has special place in our heart. Surprise is neither small nor big. Even small surprise gives us as much as happiness as that of big surprise.

Sparkles in eye, joy, happiness, pleasure, bliss, delight, ecstasy, feel like flying in seventh heaven combines into one such wonderful moment. THAT IS MAGIC OF SURPRISE.