Couple who show that they love each other too much and does not quarrel with each other, couple who show that they love and understand each other very much that they don’t have any reason to quarrel, couple who says that they love each other and promise not to quarrel with each other, couple who say people in love live happily ever after, etc… are all greatest liars or have not faced the meaning of life or have not love from soul or pretend to be happiest and most lovable couple to outside world…
I would rephrase SPRITE punch line “JHOOT KEHTE HAI WO, JO KEHTE HAI KE UNMAI FIGHT NAHI HOTI” (original is “Jhoot kehte hai wo, jo kehte hai unhe pyaas nahi lagti”)
Quarrels do happen… Misapprehension does create problems… At some instance, they don’t understand each other… They do shatter promises… To escape from squabble, they do lie with each other or they do conceal something from each other…
Some quarrel is due to misconception, some are due to trust issue, some quarrel are due to hidden past matters & incidents happened, some situation are due to doggedness of either of partner, some arises when one does not know or understand the situation of other partner, some are due to lie got unfold at present, etc…
Some quarrel takes a serious note while some quarrel ends with sweet note. It all depends on the circumstances, the intent, the understanding, trust within, degree of possessiveness & envy, loyalty, etc… One can understand that couple don’t want everybody or outside world to meddle in their private life, it’s ok for outside world when couple are straight forward with this but then pretending something else to world, makes world to think otherwise (like “they are having fun with each other” “they are not serious with long term relationship” “they are big liars” etc…)
All love and no quarrel makes life dry and boring. No love and all quarrel makes life break into pieces and depression. Some love and all quarrel makes life doubtful and misery. All love with some quarrel makes life interesting and loving. There is nothing to hide about quarrel or say to pretend as if couple don’t quarrel who loves true from heart. Those who love from heart, they too quarrel but ends with better understanding and with more love for each other from heart.
LOVE FROM SOUL, QUARREL FROM SOUL, BE HONEST AND DON’T PRETEND. LOVE AND FIGHT ADDS SPICE IN LIFE.
Hmmm...to begin with I'll say just one line from a latest Hindi song which says..." Mil gaya...khoya tha jo Sitara mil gaya...( Taare Zameen Per)" Great that the blogger has again made a fresh start with difference in the way he started writting in his last few blogs...
ReplyDeleteQuarrel does happen among family members, among friends, among colleagues and yes between couples also and it happens mostly all of sudden without giving any chance to decide and think...And I believe in many cases it's not should not be considered as quarrel rather it can be taken as vehement expression of one's thought which would be disturbing him...and people express them in such a manner only before somebody who they believe cares about them and is ready to listen...being a good partner one should listen to it and try to analyse the situation by putting him self in the realm of the person who had expressed his/ her thought in such a harsh manner...surely he will come out with some solutions or compromises if he really cares about his partner...
I believe for any coexistence there can be three pillars for it and they are conception...consideration...compromises...but at the same time any structure with three pillars is generally not considered stable to I'll add one more pillar to it and that is Love which is required endurance of any relationship...
Good understanding of relationships..I liked last lines the best..!
ReplyDeleteRephrasin dat punchline was humorous ad apart from dat it also further asserts ur thoughts !
hi abhi,
ReplyDeletefights do happen.. but blogs need a punch for making it more interesting...
"Some quarrel takes a serious note while some quarrel ends with sweet note. It all depends on the circumstances, the intent, the understanding, trust within, degree of possessiveness & envy, loyalty, etc…" it rather depends on the person and how much u love....
nice try....
true...very true...i liked and agree with your viewpoint ..
ReplyDeletenice post..
ReplyDeleteliked de way u summarised it..
"All love and no quarrel makes life dry and boring. .. .. .."
(on the line of.. All work n no play leaves jack a dull boy..)
d couple dat fights d most s d one most n love...it shows they care enough 2 notice d other one screwed up nd care enough 2 mention it to d person so they can fix it...so wen u stop fighting it means u stop caring...
ReplyDelete>>>>i love ur understanding bout relationships....