Friday, March 21, 2008

Colours of LIFE




Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Quarrel do happen in love

Couple who show that they love each other too much and does not quarrel with each other, couple who show that they love and understand each other very much that they don’t have any reason to quarrel, couple who says that they love each other and promise not to quarrel with each other, couple who say people in love live happily ever after, etc… are all greatest liars or have not faced the meaning of life or have not love from soul or pretend to be happiest and most lovable couple to outside world…
I would rephrase SPRITE punch line “JHOOT KEHTE HAI WO, JO KEHTE HAI KE UNMAI FIGHT NAHI HOTI” (original is “Jhoot kehte hai wo, jo kehte hai unhe pyaas nahi lagti”)

Quarrels do happen… Misapprehension does create problems… At some instance, they don’t understand each other… They do shatter promises… To escape from squabble, they do lie with each other or they do conceal something from each other…

Some quarrel is due to misconception, some are due to trust issue, some quarrel are due to hidden past matters & incidents happened, some situation are due to doggedness of either of partner, some arises when one does not know or understand the situation of other partner, some are due to lie got unfold at present, etc…

Some quarrel takes a serious note while some quarrel ends with sweet note. It all depends on the circumstances, the intent, the understanding, trust within, degree of possessiveness & envy, loyalty, etc… One can understand that couple don’t want everybody or outside world to meddle in their private life, it’s ok for outside world when couple are straight forward with this but then pretending something else to world, makes world to think otherwise (like “they are having fun with each other” “they are not serious with long term relationship” “they are big liars” etc…)

All love and no quarrel makes life dry and boring. No love and all quarrel makes life break into pieces and depression. Some love and all quarrel makes life doubtful and misery. All love with some quarrel makes life interesting and loving. There is nothing to hide about quarrel or say to pretend as if couple don’t quarrel who loves true from heart. Those who love from heart, they too quarrel but ends with better understanding and with more love for each other from heart.

LOVE FROM SOUL, QUARREL FROM SOUL, BE HONEST AND DON’T PRETEND. LOVE AND FIGHT ADDS SPICE IN LIFE.