Love or Happiness

Once again, I am just wondering and pondering over what should be most important for me?

To win her love and feel back love

Or

To do anything for her happiness, her dream n all about her of life

My mind is going through many thoughts; like winning her love is giving her happiness too whereas my heart is having vice versa thought; giving her all happiness of life eventually will make you deserve her love too.

I literally for a moment, believed my mind because winning her love is not that easy as I would have to do anything and everything for her and deserve to be loved back by her. But then my heart had hiccup stating that when you expect to be loved back, it’s not real love; it will eventually become selfish love because you will always see what you are getting in return while you are doing so much in love.

For a moment, I then; focused on my heart speech. My heart is very clear; do anything for her happiness of life, do everything for her wish of life and make her believe that her dream will be reality because you will make it happen for her. And yes, don’t expect anything in return; Do all unconditionally, do all gracefully, do all with due respect of your love, do all as if you live life for her life and you feel happy in her happiness.

At one point, my mind is right but then at many points, my heart is far ahead of righteous thoughts.

I can win her love in many ways, but then the expectation of getting back more from her will dilute my trueness of love and purity of soul. Whereas I shall work harder and do anything without any selfish motive in heart for her life, her happiness, her wish, her dream and everything about her will mark my unconditional love for her as true and pure.

Doing everything to win her love might make you win her love but then chances are she might feel that love is not that true and not that pure and love been conditional where she might feel trapped within.

Doing everything to give her all of the happiness, caring, making her feel special, making her feel life as heavenly will eventually make you most deserving person of her love and she will truly love you back with the purest form of soul and that unconditional love will last till eternal.

Love her like no one else could in world

Win her like no one could defeat you in world

Be with her like no one could ever stand strong against you

Care for her like no one could ever come in her mind but you

Live for her like life is only for her and only through her

Die for her like the soul has the sole purpose to feel life only for her.

Do unconditionally

Care unselfishly

Live purely

and

Love truly

#Luv4u